There are people who support you in life, and people who envy your life, hate that support you get. The former are your teammates in any game life puts in front of you, the latter are the opposition. The only way to win the game is to ride on the support, be yourself and NOT listen to the mind games the opponent tries to play with you. Once you listen to them and doubt your capability, you are willingly killing yourself, inch by inch.
Vinay Leo R.
Poetry & writing are to me, a breath of fresh air in a life that is sometimes covered by the smoke of sorrow or self doubt. They also become the sweets I share to celebrate when life offers me a reason to. But most of all, they are to me, my life. For each word I write is a piece of my heart, a thought that just had to find its way into the world.
My father would say both are needed for your growth….he always had the sarcasm in his comments, never remember him appreciating any of us during our younger years….but was the most supportive when we failed or feared failure! Okay, in the outside world it is different…yet, there could be people who really are interested in you and oppose you because they feel they are more right than you….and they could be right, Vinay…it never really matters if we know who we are..and to so see if there's any point in the opposer…it would only improve you :)well, i spoke more words than in your post…because I thought it very relevant, and timely :)wishes, devika
'you are killing yourself second by second'!nice reality check Leo!i could hardly log in to my gmail account Leo! what must be wrong with it?helppp…..:)
so true :))
what happened?you seem so..i do not know what to say….angry…its not right word……are you studing for some exams?sweetie..you are too young to start thinking like this…keep these realizations away and enjoy life..i hope you do not mind…the mother in me likes to advice..
Very Much True 🙂 🙂 Beautiful Write Up 🙂 🙂
Interesting point of view. I would add that it is dangerous to only listen to those who love you. Sometimes they will only say what they think you want to hear. Allowing yourself to fill up on negativity is most definitely a bad thing, but so is listening to people who won't tell you the truth you need to hear but don't want to. Well said though 🙂
completely true and well put into words! good day
nice one dear…but wats there to win without a competitive opponent right?:)….
all ur words are really true vinu..loved the post 🙂
so vry true yr..ur reality bite beats all..thnx 4 sharing such a profound thought..!!!
True indeed. But is it always possible to turn against the opposition?
Very true.But is it always possible to shut yourself agnst the opponent?
@Devika Ma'am,yes. both are necessary. the negative comments if they motivate u, then well and good 🙂 i was of opinion here that one should not get demotivated by the opposition's negativity! 🙂
@Amity,thank u! :)donno what could be wrong Amity!
@Shriti,thanks!
@Shraddhs,i'm fine yaar! 🙂 reality check is somewhat my realizations in life. it needs to be there to enjoy and understand life i feel!my mom gets worried too of me! totally get where ur comin from! 😀
@Sahana,thanks dear! 🙂
@Dee,yes.. that is dangerous too…
@Melissa,thank u! good day to u too!
@Tulup,true.. but if u let opponent get u down, how can u win?
@Snow,thanks!!
@Ariel,u dont have to turn against them..u have to compete against them..it may not always be possible to shut urself against the opponent, but u have to try!! 🙂
@Maddy,thanks! 🙂
!!Repeated Comment 4 Ariel!!
we all need some reality checks at times ! this was universal 🙂
@Pratsie,yes. it is needed at times! 🙂
True that !! bitter life lesson.. but after winning the game.. one needs to analyse whether there was any truth in the opponents words.. if so… he needs to change it be4 the next game… 🙂 It helps sometimes..
@Ak47,thanks very much! 🙂